A Life that benefits others should prove Eternally Rewarding
By Sivaramakrishnan A, 21st Jan 2012 | Follow this author
| RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/19sx1zwe/
Posted in WikinutGuidesActivism
Our lives should have a greater meaning than touching few lives and leave fleeting memories. We are part of the whole evolutionary process and we can well get the meaning of the part we had to play from a vantage point later. That will decide whether our lives were really worth the while!
Shifting Landscapes
In a dog-eat-dog world, one cannot be faulted for being preoccupied with self preservation and personal advancement. After all, when we have a family to support, we cannot be altruistic in a materialistic world. We can eschew some basics even, but what about family members who look up for our support?
Increasingly, the carefree childhood days are robbed right from the cradle, especially in city lifestyles. One is rushed from point A to point B and such paths continue right through adulthood. They are accepted as the norm and few dare to take a contrarian path. It is a herd instinct with few pausing to question and think of alternate lifestyles. These are especially evident in Asian societies out to catch up with those already ahead and perceived as worth emulating. This mad race is putting pressure on even the pace setters, causing them to feel the pressure to maintain their lead, preserve their lifestyles!
Accepting Realities
Increasingly, the utter hopelessness of such lifestyles and the resultant strain on societies in general have made many to question our direction and the price we are forced to pay. The environmental degradation through over-exploitation of finite resources is becoming increasingly apparent. There is mad scramble for limited resources from hitherto underdeveloped countries. And then is the inventing of ways to make quick money through dubious methods that finally take their toll on societal well being, with the poorest citizens having to carry the ultimate burden. The pioneering spirit and sacrifice that built the foundations of developed countries is clearly missing in modern societies, with many after lifestyles ensconced in luxury but avoiding the hard choices necessary to forge ahead, or at least keep up the present lifestyles well oiled with positive actions.
We become aware of prevailing emptiness and lack of foresight, living beyond our means, bankrupting and robbing future generations of basics that we were provided with. Investment to build solid infrastructure is lacking; resources wasted on expenditures that give no return. They also cause huge psychological negative impact on the moral fiber of societies. All in all, poor lifestyle choices all round!
Our leaders are expected to lead us to where we aspire for. But they have also to please those who prove crucial to their hold on power. But the former have own axe to grind! Even in liberal democracies, some are able to exercise more than equal citizenship rights through ways that are not above board. They have influence that others lack. The majority are busy with their lives, earning their keep through fair means.
Conscience is our Master
How do the ordinary citizens find meaning and just reward for an upright lifestyle? What legacy can he/she leave behind that rest easy on conscience? Change what we can and accept that we cannot - is a way to trudge through life and do our own bit. Each can do but little, but if each does that little, all will be done - is another way! We fight many injustices but when we slay one, others rise, like the multi-headed hydra! We can never take our eyes off to have an easy life, served on a plate; have to accept those that may not please us, but as a society we have to carry on, on the basis of give and take.
It is said we need to live a life that we will be proud of in our last moments on this beautiful planet. We leave fleeting memories, but some footprints and imprints might survive till eternity. We might as well reflect on our life forever, realize the whole purpose of it, from a vantage point that lies hidden now when we can’t see the forest for the trees in our present lives. But we have an inner voice that tells us what is right from wrong; guides us along. A life lived to benefit many, both seen and even unseen, gives us genuine meaning and reward. Modern lifestyles are a challenge but we still can find resources to lead a life to touch the disadvantaged. Then the final moments should prove defining, after a life that was lived well and passing on the right morals for others to build on. We carry the baton and run our short distance. We run not only for entire humanity, other species, but also ultimately as a part of whole evolutionary process. Our lives might be seen as totally insignificant, but there should be a role to it, and the conscience, burning inside us, guides us till our last breaths. Are we up to the challenge?


Comments
21st Jan 2012 (#)
such great work sir. ^_^ and oh yeah, i love this " Our lives should have a greater meaning than touching few lives and leave fleeting memories. " opening. it hooked me into reading your work .^_^
Reply to this comment
21st Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks Max for such kind words of support. Really appreciate it - siva
Reply to this comment
21st Jan 2012 (#)
God's Holy Word tells us in Ecclesiastes 11:1 to "Cast your bread upon the waters: for you shall find it after many days."KJV, According to Barne's Notes on the Bible, this verse means "Show hospitality, even though the corresponding return of hospitality to you may seem improbable; nevertheless, be hospitable in faith." Even in today's money centered existence we can still be hospitable to other in many ways that will cost us nothing more than a little of our time. To illustrate, I spent my Thanksgiving and Christmas helping to feed the homeless at one of our local soup kitchens. Luke 6:38 tells us Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your lap. For with the same measure that you measure it shall be measured to you again." We may live in a dog eat dog world, but we don't have to be one of the pack.
Reply to this comment
21st Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks Jerry for your detailed and meaningful response. I have seen in Asia, many after lifestyles that go before a fall. It is like when a genie offering one of the options for the taking - eternal bliss or million of bucks with misery. And few readily opting for the latter hoping that the millions will take care of the miseries! Being in the finance field, I have seen at close hand how money corrupts and some are enslaved by the trappings of wealth. When I touch this topic, it is just outpourings from my heart at the injustice of it all. I appreciate that there are many like you who rise above the pitfalls; that makes our lives worth the while all the time - siva
Reply to this comment
21st Jan 2012 (#)
A life long challenge Siva and let us pray that we are..great page, thank you my friend...
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks, Delicia, for your inspiring words - siva
Reply to this comment
21st Jan 2012 (#)
Beautifully written Sivar, how eloquently you put this.. Well done on a well written article..
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks Songbird, for your words of encouragement - siva
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
It is true that many never see the broader picture of life - our actual life is so small in meaning, yet everything we do helps to shape our future. Better not to live for reward, but to live to be part of the whole.
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
When we do what is right, follow the inner voice, we feel the peace. That is reward by iteself. Thanks for your comment, Gail - siva
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Indeed. We should not only focus on things that are temporary but on matters that are eternal. If we come to think of it, it makes a lot of sense that there is, in fact, eternity beyond mortality.
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks Athena. Complete justice is not meted out in this world due to our inadequacies but we carry on. So, we should carry forward the net balance to another world, logically - siva
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
You're an erudite writer, my friend. I appreciate your putting subjects from a different angle or perspective. Always thought-provoking when I see them from your angle.
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks a lot, Buzz. Comments such as these from someone like you mean a lot to me - siva
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
I agree with all of what you have written. Where I disagree with you at is in your response to Jerry. You have stated that money has ruined others and I say, it is not the money that is the problem, it is some thing inside that person that is lacking. As always, a great page. Thank you for sharing.:)
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks Denise for your comment, appreciate it. What I meant to say was mindless accumulation of wealth takes over a person's life to make him obsessed with such a lifestyle. Only very few let go and have a fulfilling life. I have seen even loved ones leaving such persons to their own devises as if incorrigible for other facets of life! I am yet to see a Bill Gates or Warren Buffet in Asia though many do pledge their wealth through words; yet to see much follow up after that! - siva
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
I hear ya. I was just saying that, it is 'not money' that is bad for people, it is 'their love' for money, that is to blame. Have a blessed day.:)
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Yes, Conscience is our Master.
Whatever is said and done cannot be beyond our conscience.
Nice thoughts Siva.
Divine.
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks Rathna. Your comments touch my heart - siva
Reply to this comment
22nd Jan 2012 (#)
Lovely philosophy, Siva.
Reply to this comment
23rd Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks for your support, Sheila - siva
Reply to this comment
23rd Jan 2012 (#)
Divinely inspired Sivaji--you speak with veracity and verve, focusing the lens on universal issues--character and conscience play vital roles...and your words nourish both...
Namaste
Reply to this comment
23rd Jan 2012 (#)
What inspiring words, dear Rama-ji, that mean so much to me. Such unstinted appreciation trumps all others that a material world can bestow - siva
Reply to this comment
24th Jan 2012 (#)
What a great page, so much for us to think about.
Reply to this comment
24th Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks Val. Your encouraging words much appreciated - siva
Reply to this comment
25th Jan 2012 (#)
a life which is used to help other have to be rewarding, because helping someone will help you in return
Reply to this comment
25th Jan 2012 (#)
Thanks Pankaj, for your words of support - siva
Reply to this comment
30th Mar 2012 (#)
Dear Sivaji,
The article is excellent.
Souvik Chatterji
Reply to this comment
30th Mar 2012 (#)
Thanks Souvik, for your support and kind words - siva
Reply to this comment
29th Apr 2012 (#)
Sorry I am just now reading this. I got behind! I love this article!! You are so right that we should live a life that benefits others!!! Such keen insight!!!
Reply to this comment
29th Apr 2012 (#)
Thanks Judy, better late than never! Are we not helping the Creator that way, the ultimate reward being part of Him? siva
Reply to this comment