LaToya By LaToya, 14th Jun 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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When being alone has absolutely nothing at all to do with being lonely. And when wanting to be alone is actually a very healthy and happy state of existence, and well-being.


Time is precious. Before we know it our valuable moments quickly pass us by.

I cannot express enough how important it is to cherish the significant periods within our lifetime.

We will never get them back.

There are lots of wonderful memories to reminisce and to look back on. Times of love, times of bonding, times of epiphanies, times of change.

Yet there is the here and now.

As we grow older we look back to make examinations about the past and the present. Whether some of the experiences that we may have had were of a negative or of a positive nature-for those who are mature we’ve learned, we’ve grown, and we’ve maintained from them.

Now using our knowledge, strength, and confidence we are to partially serve to influence our futures.

Life is way too short to spend time being unhappy and wasting time on things that are not productive. Or wasting time being in predicaments and/or doing things that one does not really want to do.

Some people unfortunately have no other choice but there are alternatives that many can make even if it is just about making small minor adjustments that may lead to further opportunities toward chance.

I am at a place where I entertain contentment.

I have sacrificed by leaving certain situations to faith and I have reaped propitious reward. I have the time that I need all to myself.

Much time to be alone. Much time to not be bothered with the things that I cannot and will not tolerate.

I have solitude.

In my secluded areas there is absolutely no room for frivolity or negativity. I have time to think. Time to be. Time for me. Time to enjoy the uninterrupted positively charged energies.

It is very unhealthy spiritually for me to be around specific types of people.

Just like our minds and bodies need care we also need to nurture our spirits. A sufficient amount of reclusiveness is the remedy for a many of conflicting spiritual ailments and disturbances.

A solitary being, isolated from the things in which is considered foreign to me. In my secluded areas, I live. I laugh. I write. I read. I enjoy music. I enjoy film. I have fun.

Even when I go out to trot about amongst the world I take into the pleasures that arise from the peace that only comes from within.

Everyone has their own method of rejuvenation and sustainment.

And even though we all are on this earth for a very short and temporary time-span before we make our particular transitions to the other sides of the realm there are still those stages that need to be determined, planned, and accomplished right between here.

My Inclusion Of Seclusion:

Just because I am alone does not make me lonely. Just because I have a sharp tongue does not make me angry.

When I speak the truth do not tell me that I am mean. When I speak my knowledge do not tell me that I am too judgmental.

Give me my place, a remote area where I can breathe. Give me my home, an area where I can bare all of my nakedness in.

Give me my own due solitude because everyone surely does not need or desire the company of others all of the time.-Miss LaToya


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Published Author, Writer, Clairvoyant Medium, Spiritualist (Yoruba), Asexual, Truth-Teller. I Am A Fighter And A Survivor. An Unconventional Human Being.

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author avatar Lorenz
16th Jun 2013 (#)

Just because I am alone does not make me lonely. Just because I have a sharp tongue does not make me angry.

I like these lines; I can relate to this.

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author avatar LaToya
17th Jun 2013 (#)

It is nice to have someone who is able to relate to what many are ignorant about.

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author avatar cnwriter..carolina
2nd May 2014 (#)

yes you have written what is and that is fabulous LaToya...thank you

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author avatar LaToya
4th Jul 2014 (#)

Thank You cnwriter.

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