Success can be the best revenge

Karman's Kreations By Karman's Kreations, 18th Apr 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Regardless of how hard we work to gain success in our lives there is always one who will tell us, usually on a regular basis, "You Don't Have What It Takes"....Success is the best revenge.

The Doubter

Do we not all have at least that one individual who will tell us that we are not capable. It could be a "friend" or a spouse that lives in fear of our realization that we do not need them to make us who we are because we do that by the experiences we have. Possibly it is that co-worker who does not want us to do better, work harder, learn more because we just might gain the promotion they are desirous of.

The doubter is that one person who can give you reason to question that which you know. That you are capable, it is possible, and you do deserve!

The doubter can be one who claims to love you and only wants the best for you.

The doubter can even be the worst enemy in the world....YOURSELF!!!

The Phoenix

The Phoenix is one that comes from the ashes of destruction to gain life and success. Life and success can be worlds apart or they can be one in the same.
The Phoenix finds success in moving past the doubters to achieve that which was so strenuously in question.

Like the Phoenix, I arose from the ashes of defeat to success of A Cum Laude Graduation gaining a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology after years of hearing that I was too old to be attending school. Hearing that I should be taking care of my family. Hearing that I should have done it right out of High School and I would be so much further in life than I am right now.

NEVER allow the doubters in your life to stop you from success!

Success is the BEST revenge!

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author avatar Karman's Kreations
I am a widow, writer, artist, photographer, inspirationalist, sarcastically sweet beauty who hopes to find something she is successful at.

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author avatar avery sandiego
18th Apr 2012 (#)

I like this article...I do experience that in my life...Success is the Best Revenge!...I just ignore detractors in my life but sometimes I am affected, however I don't have to prove something to anyone only to myself.

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author avatar Euphonos
18th Apr 2012 (#)

Damn True

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
18th Apr 2012 (#)

A friend of mine was extremely unhappy of the fact that I was a better writer than he was ans devised a plan with a group of friends to bring me down into the dumps because of it.
Started with malicious phone calls to the husband, telling that I was cheating on him causing him to leave the family amidst debt until I proved otherwise and it took over a year and yes my husband and myself are still together but living apart. The second, got couple of friends to delete my work as he felt I was getting too popular and wanted to see me in the dumps and in tears, apparently, selling my flesh too to make ends meet. Then used friends to frame me that I was having an affair with him and getting his wife to abuse me when I asked his family to meet mine and ended up having my mother abused by him.
Finally I drew a peace line and decided to give him the script for my third installment of Land of Mystery series and got pulled to court because of his fickle thinking which included having fake lawyers call my work place to farm for information, intimidation etc. I was not totally allowed to prove myself on the day of the hearing but later provided the proof of the script that contained his name. My mistake-giving him the highest commendation in the first part of the Land of Mystery Series.
I pulled down my website to edit stuff too because of his accusation.
None the less, his accusations and malicious thinking cost me my job in one of the companies because he and his friends branded me a cyber criminal and if you google it you will find it. I am waiting till I am strong enough and then will come back to fight this as I am horrified as how much jealousy and ego in a friend can destroy the name and reputation of a person.
I am just lucky that my prized job finished honourably as no one believed his malicious lies out there and called him a crazy sexual grifter with low self worth who did in a lady to get a hold of her book by tarnishing her name and reputation.
I proved it openly to the world and have nothing to hide but have risen from the shackles and allegations to prove my worth finally in real.
No doubt I am shocked and saddened but understand his desperation as he was coming out of a 12 year relationship with his wife in 2009 but got stuck again because she had another baby in 2010. Happy for the two of them and forgive both too.

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author avatar Val Mills
18th Apr 2012 (#)

Congrats on this page, you prove you are a real winner. At the moment, my son is lost in self doubt and needs to read this.

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author avatar Pradeep Kumar B
18th Apr 2012 (#)

Good work.

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author avatar Delicia Powers
18th Apr 2012 (#)

Nicely done:0)

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