Take responsibility for a better tomorrow

Talha Saeed By Talha Saeed, 26th Feb 2014 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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We are responsible for whatever we have in our lives and nobody else. Instead of blaming others we must take responsibility ourselves for everything that is there in our life and only then we will be able to find ways for a better tomorrow.

Responsibility Is Ours

I got late because all traffic signals were red, tyre of my car got punctured, and traffic was like crazy. I can’t exercise because my boss doesn't give me time; I get tired enough for anything else when I reach back home. I can’t do this and I can’t do that and that’s how some of us are spending our lives forgetting that time is passing and life is not a rehearsal.
Your dreams will remain dreams if you are waiting for the opportunity to knock your door because that is not going to happen. Opportunities have to be created and only then you will be able to find time out. Only way to create an opportunity is to take responsibility. Take responsibility of everything that is there in your life may that be good or bad. You are responsible for whatever you have in your life and nobody else.
To take responsibility you must accept that you got late not because all traffic signals were red, tyre of your car got punctured and traffic was like crazy. You got late because you did not take any margin of time in hand. It’s not your boss because of which you are not getting time for exercise. It is because of your own self that you can’t manage your time well. By accepting you are actually taking responsibility and by doing so you will find ways towards betterment.

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author avatar Talha Saeed
Not a regular writer but would love to express my feelings on different aspects of life. I am a fighter pilot by profession.

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author avatar Hina Mrz
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Great piece of writing Talha.. Beautifully expressed.

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author avatar Sumiya Ishtiaq
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Amazingly put!

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author avatar Wardah Waares
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Well done, I m seeing here replacement of Air.cod Shahid Lafit in future. (Y)

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author avatar Talha Saeed
26th Feb 2014 (#)

He was retired as Air Marshal Wardah

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author avatar Wardah Waares
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Ohh :)

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author avatar Myra Rahmani
26th Feb 2014 (#)

you have made a really good point here; taking responsibility is the first step towards a better lifestyle

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author avatar Talha Saeed
26th Feb 2014 (#)

:)

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author avatar Esha
28th Feb 2014 (#)

Very well Talha Saeed Keep it up

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Succinctly and well presented, Talha. As it is said - to get things done give the work to a busy person and he will find the time. The mourners and groaners are always busy in their acts! siva

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author avatar Mian Farrukh Mehmood
26th Feb 2014 (#)

An important behavioral issue is addressed in this writing, good knock !

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author avatar Misbah
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Very well expressed:)keep it up

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author avatar Fakhri javaid
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Excellent.. keep on writing .. Allah bless you ..

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author avatar Nazish
26th Feb 2014 (#)

This is the sort of thing that we all realize but very few have the strength to adopt. Neatly written.

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author avatar Shahid Ehsan
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Nice work man

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author avatar Kamran Ghafoor
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Nice attempt Talha. We should own our acts specially the wrong ones if we really want to bring change. Within ourselves first and then in the country. keep rolling the stone. :)

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author avatar Talha Saeed
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Thats true and thank u :)

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author avatar Salman
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Well said Talha Sahib. Keep sharing your thought for betterment.

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author avatar Adil Waheed
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Well written, This is simply the case with everyone...

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author avatar Talha Saeed
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Thanks everyone

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author avatar Ayesha
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Great article

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author avatar MarilynDavisatTIERS
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Good morning, Talha, nicely done. It is so easy to blame others, and so hard to take responsibiltiy. ~Marilyn

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author avatar Tazeen
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Nice article

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author avatar Haleema
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Well said!

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author avatar Yasar
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Well done Mr Talha you describe goods thing very much appreciated. In short a man is always a judge for others and always a lawyer for him self....

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author avatar Ainee ashfaq
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Very well written...

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author avatar Zara
26th Feb 2014 (#)

"Time & tide waits for no one"

A simple thought that has been put in an eloquent style. Opportunities are indeed created they don't always knock. It's 'luck' that knocks.

Thank you Talha Bhai for this insightful lesson that we must at least try to put into practice. Blame games never got anyone very far ever.

Be blessed!

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author avatar Zara
26th Feb 2014 (#)

"Time & tide waits for no one"

A simple thought that has been put in an eloquent style. Opportunities are indeed created they don't always knock. It's 'luck' that knocks.

Thank you Talha Bhai for this insightful lesson that we must at least try to put into practice. Blame games never got anyone very far ever.

Be blessed!

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author avatar Maryam
26th Feb 2014 (#)

A simple yet important thought , beautifully expressed.

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author avatar Simi
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Nice article. Life is all about choices and consequences . We are not ahead because we Donot take responsibility of our own actions and affrAid to leave our comfort zone. Life starts after we take chances and leave that comfort zone . We all need to break the pattern and need to learn more about time managment. Talha you rock !!!!!

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author avatar Talha Saeed
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Thank u everyone for appreciating :)

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author avatar Mehreen
26th Feb 2014 (#)

a harsh reality that most of us are unwilling to accept as it is much easier to put the blame on others. very well put!

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author avatar Fatihaa qureshi
26th Feb 2014 (#)

great article about life.very wellsaid (y)

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author avatar Atif Manzoor
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Very well written Talha. We need writers like u who can put light on important issues in a lighter way.

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author avatar Kj
26th Feb 2014 (#)

great peice of writing;-)

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author avatar Kj
26th Feb 2014 (#)

great peice of writing..welldone:)

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author avatar Sameer
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Excellent bro. Short n precise =)

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author avatar Saira omer
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Great article!

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author avatar Rabia imran
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Excellent article and an eyeopener. Good job keep it up

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author avatar Kashif Imran
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Excellent.. keep on writing Talha.. GOD bless you ..

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author avatar Bilal
26th Feb 2014 (#)

wow great well said i appreciate ,, keep writing :)

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author avatar Uzma Yaqoob Khawaja
26th Feb 2014 (#)

True that, We have to take responsibilities and have to come out of our comfort zone for making better future.Nice thoughts Talha ... Keep it up :)

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author avatar Amin
26th Feb 2014 (#)

well done

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author avatar Imran
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Excellent article and an eyeopener. Good job keep it up

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author avatar Mohid Javaid
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Very nice Talha, food for thought

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author avatar Abdur Rehman
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Very well written piece,,,very thoughtful

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author avatar Rabia
26th Feb 2014 (#)

very nice article

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author avatar Huma Wajahat
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Great thought n good point to focus on ..... its the time which we always take it as forgranted but now for a change and for a better lifestyle we have to take it damn seriously. Thanks for putting such a valuable topic infront of all of us ....

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author avatar Aasma
26th Feb 2014 (#)

wel said :]

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author avatar Sabamir
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Short yet impressive. You have the power to express and you gave everyone something to think about. :-)
Keep up the good work. May Allah give everyone the strength to accept our responsibilities and take charge.

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author avatar Sabamir
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Short yet impressive. You have the power to express and you gave everyone something to think about. :-)
Keep up the good work. May Allah give everyone the strength to accept our responsibilities and take charge.

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author avatar Roshnahassan
26th Feb 2014 (#)

a very good attempt ....we always blame others 4 our own faults.......we should start believing in our selves ...nice effort

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author avatar Mobs
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Wow! Very well written!!

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author avatar Mehreen
26th Feb 2014 (#)

very well said.keep on writing .no doubt there is a potential writer in u.

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author avatar DURDANA
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Brilliant effort with very clear concepts. Well done Talha!!!

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author avatar Tehmina Ibadat
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Very thought provoking! good piece of writing!

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author avatar Nadia ali
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Nice article,vry beautifully expressed.....

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author avatar Nadia ali
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Nice article and vry beautifully expressed.......

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author avatar Salman Tahir
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Spot on. Here's a reality check for each one of us.

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author avatar Aneela
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Quite an eye opener, how do we keep blaming others for our own mistakes......
I dont know about others but from now onward, I will try to keep margin of time in hand to do things on time. Thank you for making me realize it.
:)

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author avatar Aamir Altaf
26th Feb 2014 (#)

Nice article dear... keep it up

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author avatar Maryiam ali
26th Feb 2014 (#)

beautifully expressed,keep on writing.

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author avatar Hassan Ikram
27th Feb 2014 (#)

keep it up...Worth Reading :)

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author avatar Talha Saeed
27th Feb 2014 (#)

Thanks everyone for the appreciations :)

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author avatar Mansoor
27th Feb 2014 (#)

Well done Talha

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author avatar Omer Riaz
27th Feb 2014 (#)

Rightly said we should take the credit as well as the blame for our deeds..

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author avatar Sumreen Khalid
27th Feb 2014 (#)

Constants always will remain constants and variables will always remain variables, one of two opposite standing persons with face to face each other will read 6 and other will read the same digit as 9, both are right but the points of standing( situation ) is different.its very nice to read and must be adopted but in ideal conditions of life where life is combination of constants( luck) and variables (try).........

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author avatar Hassan saddique
22nd Sep 2014 (#)

its a great note sir keep sharing

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