The Feedback Funnel

TR By TR, 1st Dec 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL
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Explanation on the importance of providing and receiving feedback for personal growth.

The Feedback Funnel

“Everyone has a story that makes me stronger. I know that the work I do is important and I enjoy it, but it is nice to hear the feedback of what we do to inspire others.” – Richard Simmons

If everyone had perfect telepathy we would read each other’s minds. We would instantly know what the other is thinking, feeling and their expectations. Knowing their expectations, we could act accordingly to not offend. We would know when and in exactly the right way how to provide moral support. Gifts and desires automatically known, having satisfying holidays would be a breeze. Ah, what a life!

The reality is we must put in effort to understand others. To know what someone wants, it may not be enough to guess. Body language, voice inflection and diction are all means we use to signal our intentions and feelings in the present moment. In team projects this communication is essential to remain aware of. But even these elements do not provide us with enough rich information to know whether our points are understood or others understand ours. This gap in understanding is where feedback comes in.

Project teams can benefit from feedback when:

1. Members avoid resistance: If the feedback is a river then resistance is the huge stone blocking the water’s flow.
2. You recognize the difference between criticism and feedback: Criticism is information shared often highlighting the negative point of view and it lacks providing a solution. It may touch on a realistic problem but does not show how it could be resolved. Feedback is constructive when solutions are provided and information is shared without a personal attack. Sometimes constructive feedback can be misinterpreted as criticism and this elevates resistance.
3. You ask for permission to give feedback: Asking “Are you open to receive feedback?” or “Would you like to have some feedback?” creates an open channel for the giver and receiver. The receiver can then prepare to take the information in.
4. Seen as a tool for improvement: Constructive feedback is designed to work towards self and team improvement. It focuses on areas of opportunity and how to maximize them. It touches upon strengths and how to increase them. Constructive feedback should leave the receiver feeling like they can do more not less.

Feedback is an inevitable piece of our societal fabric and an asset when working in teams.


Challenge, Communication, Criticism, Feedback, Growth, Ideas

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Trent values the imagination, intellect, passion and how these human qualities can spark profound influence upon the material and inner life.

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author avatar Rose*
24th Dec 2013 (#)

Also - provide feedback on the good things as well as the bad

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