"move forward and Never Look Back"

Peppernina63 By Peppernina63, 24th Aug 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/3f7u7h4t/
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When we find ourselves in losing relationships, we have to let go of them and never look back on them.

Move Forward and Never look back"

We all go through periods of heart break and pain, but we can't let it stop us from obtaining better for ourselves. People that are children of God cannot let harsh experiences beat them down. We have to look deep within and dig up enough courage, strength and love for ourselves to look for something better. Sometimes we accept some impossible situations because we don't think we can do any better. We must realize that thinking that way is a trick of the devil. He wants us to feel beat down and unworthy to keep us from moving forward. However, what ever it is that has us stagnated in life, we have let it go and never look back. I know that these words sound easy, but the chore of not looking back is a hard job to accomplish, especially if you're in a long term relationship. We think about all the love and care and years we've put into a relationship. The sacrifices struggling with the ups and down of the relationship to just throw it away. You have to weigh all of your options to see if it's really worth it to stay in a relationship, where you're giving one hundred percent and getting very little in return. We're all worth something and none of us should be stuck in a relationship that's going nowhere last. We have to let it go and never look back. There are at least two or three scriptures in the bible that takes a dim view of looking back. Genesis 19-17: and it came to pass, when they had brought them forth abroad, that he said, escape for thy life; look not behind thee, neither stay thou in all plain, escape to the mountains. St. Luke 19-26: But his wife (Lot).looked backed from behind and turned into a pillar of salt. Luke 9-62: And Jesus said, no man having put his hands to the plough and looking back is not fit for the kingdom of God. The first two scriptures are about Lot and his wife and how the bible speak very harsh against looking back to let us know that looking back isn't a good thing to do. This is the reason that we should never look back, because it has negative connotations; especially if you know what you want and you have charted your course in life. Looking back is placing a stumbling block in our own way without realizing it. We all have to realize that everything that looks good isn't and strive to find the best portion in life for us and go for it. We all want love and happiness and I suggest we all pray and ask God for help and guidance in our quest for true love and happiness because without him it's not happening. I've been through many relationship and they all failed because I didn't have God involved but since, I know that I can't do anything without him; everything is so much better for me. I've even found the love of my life through the internet, we've been married 12 years. It is possible to be secure and happy in a healthy and striving relationship but we must stop looking back and having regrets over the ones that didn't happen and move forward to new beginnings where you'll find the happiness that you deserve.

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author avatar Peppernina63
I'm a wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. Published author, handmade jewelry maker and a artist. I'm a minister, child of God a people lover. I love to cook and invent my own recipes.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
25th Aug 2013 (#)

Everyone deserves to be happy but we should also take a practical view of life - take responsibilities for our actions. Learn from past but move on - siva

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author avatar Peppernina63
26th Aug 2013 (#)

Thank you Siva for your visit and your comment, I truly appreciate you. Peppernina

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